The Perfect Man (and yes I am referring to the Hilary Duff Movie)

So, I saw this movie with my dear friend Julie this weekend and it brought forth some very interesting conversation. **Warning to all guys this post is mainly for my fellow single ladies, so read on with care. Julie is one of those people, who I think found the perfect person for her, and one of the things she asked me, was would I settle for someone. (I think married people secretly want to sneak into our single world). Honestly, I don't think I would. I think at one point in my life, I might have, but I think there is a bigger plan for me, and I am glad that my life has worked out the way it has so far. I have seen what happens when a person settles for someone and then marries them and has kids and I don't want that for me, and I don't want it for my friends who complain about being single (you know who you are). Julie told me about her sister who has been married 5 years, and everyone told her not marry the guy, but she did anyway, and now they are about to get divorced. She said she asked her why she married him, and her sister responded, "he was the first one to ask." ICK NO!! See what happens when you settle. I know, I am probably not the best person to be talking about this, because it takes me forever to make up my mind about a guy, but it is better than settling for the first person who asks me out...I think people are deep and it takes awhile to really know them. Is that such a bad thing? SO I will end this with something very profound that Julie said, that I think some of my unhappy single friends should take note of, it is better to be single and wish you were in a relationship than to be in a relationship and wish you were single. Wow, pretty deep stuff coming from a Hilary Duff movie!!